### Description
- Applies a 10% buffer to arbitrum nitro txs, see
https://discord.com/channels/935678348330434570/1306264065110310987 for
context
### Drive-by changes
- Some drive-bys -- imo the Display impl of HyperlaneMessage isn't
useful at all and should be the same as Debug (or we should stop using
the Display impl)
- Updates a sealevel comment that was inaccurate as flagged by some
partners
- makes sure that relayer pods update when there's a configmap change
### Related issues
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